Lying or Paying

These are some excerpts from a article i read

" A 27-year-old advertising professional from Delhi, is one such male who believes in hard work, hard cash, and holidays in Thailand, Amsterdam and Rio. He says with the excitement of a new convert, "Earlier, I would meet a pretty girl in the office and try to strike up a conversation.
It would take considerable effort to cut through her airs and graces and get talking. The topic of the conversation would be a pain to me, but I would pretend to enjoy every moment. After a few days she would be ready to go out for coffee. This would be followed by a mind-numbing movie. Then another round of coffee.

A month would have passed by now. I would still be in hot pursuit. A few weekends later would come the big day for dinner. After the dinner I would, chivalrously, drop her home. And the next day, just when I would expect my big moment to come, I would find her chatting animatedly with the idiot from marketing. What a waste of effort."

But success in love brings a new set of obstacles. "Many a times you do succeed. And you also end up making love. But then, very quickly, you also fall out of love and start fancying other girls.
And then it gets damn difficult to break free from the woman," says Soumik Naskar, an 18-year-old undergraduate student of information technology at the Government Engineering College, Kalyani, West Bengal. "It's being unfair to the woman. You know you are in it for sex. So why keep up the pretence? Why not go straight for the nookie by paying for it?"

The new experiment of Indian men with breaking away from social norms and finding love in the commercial place is at a higher state of evolution in the First World. According to a report which appeared in the British Medical Journal in 2005, the percentage of British men who paid for sex had increased from 5.6 in 1990 to 9 in 2000.

But the element of surprise lay in the details. It was not just the fat slob, the sex worker's client stereotype, who was visiting brothels. The study found an increasing number of successful, attractive men in their mid-twenties to mid-thirties opting to pay for intimacy.
Shekhar Verma, a student of advertising and public relations at the Indian Institute of Mass Communication, New Delhi, says, "In my institute, the boys are out to get the prettiest girls, while the girls are out to get the guys with the best bikes, best mobiles and rich dads. And there's no such thing as love. So if some men have stopped being hypocritical, what's wrong with it?"

The tragedy is, says Srivastava, "that though men appreciate the needs of women, women don't of men. They expect us to listen to and understand everything they say, but don't realise they are driving us crazy. Women simply rob you of your happiness. "

Now this article does not reflect my views about the issue . I feel this does happen but not with all girls. Only very few are like this .

But yeah i kind of believe in the principle. Some of the girls nowdayz reflect such absurd behaviour .They just want to flaunt attitude . They just look sometimes on the pockets , and other times on the face . They are too busy being snobbish.Even if you want to do friendship , you have to go through all the 'PROCESSES' of qualification by the girl .

So just for the sake of sex , you have to pretend to do so many things you hate to do . Some people manage to make all the sweet talk and get the best girls . But even they dont mean much . Still they get sex . And others still who are strong on their principles , might not be able to woo the girls . Thus they are branded as losers many-a-times.

When you can get love , friendship and intimacy for money , and without lying whole day , isnt it better just to pay up for sex. rather than just go through the stupid 'PROCESSES'